James Bellerjeau

James Bellerjeau

South Carolina, USA
Aug
03
Dean Wormer Was Right! (We’re All Flounder Now)

Dean Wormer Was Right! (We’re All Flounder Now)

Rather than living in our bubbles of personal truth and wish fulfillment, let’s grow up and interact with the world as it is, in all its complexity.
1 min read
Aug
02
Skyscrapers with sunlight reflecting on windows - Moral Letters to Lucilius

011 - On Introverts - Moral Letters for Modern Times

Introversion is not something that is remedied by exposure. If anything, repeated forays out of comfortable seclusion only strengthen the desire to return to safety.
2 min read
Jul
30
No, The Stoics Were Not Joyless Grouches (Newsletter 005)

No, The Stoics Were Not Joyless Grouches (Newsletter 005)

Knowing the difference between wanting something, even wanting it badly, and needing it in order to feel happy, is useful in life.
2 min read
Jul
29
Large Ferris Wheel - Moral Letters to Lucilius

010 - On Attending To Yourself - Moral Letters for Modern Times

There is no one with whom you more profitably spend time than yourself.
2 min read
Jul
28
The Stoic Career Path

The Stoic Career Path

We are ambitious because we think this will bring us happiness, but we make ourselves unhappy in the pursuit of our ambitions.
6 min read
Jul
27
James's Rules for Personal and Professional Success

James's Rules for Personal and Professional Success

To perform at a high level, you need self-awareness and emotional intelligence, which includes knowing how you interact with others. Ask for feedback, and take it seriously but not personally.
2 min read
Jul
26
Skyscrapers - Moral Letters to Lucilius

009 - On Friendship And Philosophy - Moral Letters for Modern Times

You are sufficient in yourself if you do not need friends for your happiness, but you need not go so far as to not want them.
2 min read
Jul
23
Things We Wish Were True (Newsletter 004)

Things We Wish Were True (Newsletter 004)

Just because you find something on the internet doesn't make it true.
4 min read
Jul
22
Slanting rays of sun over a smooth lake with sailboats - Moral Letters to Lucilius

008 - On The Teacher’s Duty - Moral Letters for Modern Times

Just because I am alone does not mean I am wasting my hours away.
3 min read
Jul
21
Why Experts Are The Last People We Should Listen To

Why Experts Are The Last People We Should Listen To

Well-meaning does not mean impartial
4 min read